Two weeks ago today, April 4th at 1:50 a.m., my Mom passed from this life into eternity. We miss her terribly and yet I don’t believe the depth of loss has been fully comprehended. Since her passing, we held funeral services in Illinois and in West Virginia where she was buried. The first week was a flurry of activity, planning services, selecting photographs, writing her life story, and travel. In many ways, this activity has insulated me from the weight of grief. Nevertheless, I, and my family are at peace in the midst of what has been the most difficult weeks of my life.
Some may wonder where this peace comes from. Let me explain. First, this peace comes from God. Jesus said to His disciples before His crucifixion and resurrection, “Peace I leave with you; peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” (John 14:27). Nothing can intimidate this peace from us, not sickness, not grief, not death. God’s peace given liberally to us pushes away a fearful and troubled heart.
Second, we believe that when a person dies, who has trusted in Jesus Christ to reconcile them to God, (Romans 5:6-11) their spirit enters the presence of God. The Apostle Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 5:8 “Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord.” When Mom breathed her last breath here, her spirit left her body and is now home with the Lord. This belief allows us to grieve with hope. Mom told me one day while she was in the hospital that she was not afraid to die and reminded me that we will one day be together again for eternity. For a Christian, death is not final, but a transition into heaven to enjoy the fullness of God.
Third, our peace has come from the fellowship of other believers. The last two weeks we have been drowning in the kindness of people who loved my Mom and who love us. At Mom’s wake we stood for a solid six hours as a continuous line of people offered their prayers and kind words. We have received meals, cards, facebook messages, emails, phone calls, texts, flowers, and embraces from those who grieve with us. This has been a tremendous source of strength for us.
Finally, our peace comes from a future promise that we who are in Christ will all enjoy the presence of God free from sickness and death. The Apostle John writes in Revelation 21:1-5 “Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away. And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” It is this time that we wait with anticipation. Until then, we rest in His peace and promises.